Happy New Year? What is 2018 To You?

Death_to_Stock_Chasing_Sunrise_9_Julian_DeSchutterHappy New Year! Everyone is saying it to each other as they pass by, well at least where I was this morning. The photo above is not me nor the place I was this morning. But is it a goal of yours?

I’ll start your new year with some questions to get the adventure started. Is the new year looking happy for you? We often begin the new year with great hope and joy, looking forward to change and new beginnings, to only be followed by disappointment only a few short weeks after.

What is 2018 to you? What does it look like as you try to imagine the rest of the 364 days left of this new territory you have barely set foot on? Not sure?

Well, what would you like 2018 to look like? Perhaps you have set New Year Resolutions again and you know what it will look like, there will be no checks or cross offs to say you successfully achieved it. It never has. Are you tired of having the same life without achieving the goals you set out at every new year? Perhaps what was working for you, just stopped working now. What if 2018 could look different?

We are at Day 1 of 2018. What is stopping you from achieving that amazing 2018 you imagine yourself looking back on at Day 365 of 2018? We could work together in figuring that out. If you have been considering counselling, what is stopping you again this year?

Royal Family & January 2017


I wanted to share that I am unfortunately unable to take further counselling enquiries until January 2017. I have been receiving enquiries and thought it may be helpful to share on all my resources of this update. Please email me closer to the date for available appointment times. I will keep updating this blog with other helpful resources and thoughts in the meantime.

Also check this out. I love how the royal family is addressing mental health by being part of the Heads Together Campaign. It’s great to see those who receive a lot of social attention advocate for topics like this.




Getting Started is The Hardest Step

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It is shared by many, this procrastination that becomes our best friend when we desire to take the first step towards something. It is comforting until the dread of ‘TO DO’ lists come into play and it seems to rob the initial joy of starting something new. Sound familiar? We have all been there, but say there are varying reasons for this procrastination, no?

I have been meaning to start this mental health blog for a very long time now, but life seems to always get in the way. Mostly, it has been difficult because I wanted the first post to be really helpful for my readers and I just could not decide which topic to address first. But as I sat in the very moment and with other conversations coming into play, I realised I was sitting in the very dilemma most of my clients sit with or have sat with at one point. Taking the first step towards something. It could be anything.

Whether it be the first step to look for a counsellor and book an initial consultation, the first step to try something new or to return to something which now seems like ancient history, it can be the most difficult and daunting step. So this post may not address all the other mental health topics I initially had in my mind, however, I find it quite relational and in the moment. Even as an Integrative counsellor myself, I am not immune to this procrastination of the ‘first’. If it seemed like I am and amongst others, possibly we are just more aware of it. This is part of counselling, unlocking awareness of certain parts of our ourselves and then comes that part again…the first step.

I look forward to sharing more about mental health in this space. Follow me for updates as they come!